23rd October - Ex Boyfriends!

First photo of Dean and I together as a couple
Check out his bruise from "the fight"!

OMG!

Yes it did happen, I bumped into my ex - again.

Ok brief background for those that dont know, I was with Dennis for nearly 3 years and I was 18 when I broke up with him. I didnt break up with him for Dean but I broke up with him because of Dean. Dean showed me that I deserved better and that there was people out there that thought I was great and would love to love me etc - me not realising he was actually talking about himself!

Ok ok back to the story its not about Dean and I - its about Dennis and I (ugh).

So things were pretty intense with Dennis and I, we were young and very serious. Moved intogether at 17. One problem though - my friends didnt like him - they did at the start but at the end they didnt at all. He was controlling and wouldnt let me have my own life outside of him - at all. My family didnt like how I became a shell of my former self. My work mates didnt like him at all either. Again they started off liking him but didnt like it when he became SO
possessive etc. The final straw came one night when he held me REALLY tight and said that he knows why people in America kill their partners because they are so jealous.....yeah enough said pretty scary eh.

So I broke up with him, didnt cry ANY tears - but he did. Man did he cry. He said everything under the sun to try and make me come back. Everything. Asked me to marry him everything. I stood my ground but decided to give him one last chance. I agreed to go out to dinner with his Mum, Dad and him and to stay the night. I THINK we arranged to go the Saturday night - and so on the Friday I went out for after work drinks with everyone - my first time ever after working there for 2 years. So got home about 7.30pm to find REALLY abusive messages on the phone from him asking where the hell I was etc - I rang him and said that that was the final straw, and that was it all over red rover. (Hopefully the dinner was suppose to be the Saturday night which Im sure it was - otherwise that was bad of me to be home late if everyone was waiting for me to go out for dinner - but Im sure it was the Saturday positive I hope).

Man this is turning out to be long, but I want the whole story done.

So after that, he followed me to work, tried to run me off the road, turned up at work on my lunch breaks all the time (we worked around the corner from each other), waited for me outside work, and then started waiting for me INSIDE work - until one of the big guys there went up to him when I was at lunch and said some words to him - not sure what they were but he never came back lol.

Few weeks later I was on a date with Dean and we were at a club late leaving to go home (I wasnt going home with him just sharing a cab), Dennis saw us and bam it was all on, big fight - Dennis got Dean - but only cause Dean was SO drunk! Haha. So yeah not nice.

Fast forward 7 years - 2 months ago a car pulled out in front of me - yep it was him. He waved - me scared. Fast forward to a month ago - walked into the chemist he walked out - bump - literally. Looked up and it was him. Shit. BUT I have to be fair, he was really nice really really nice - and even apologised for everything! He also told me he developed a condition after we broke up that he couldnt go outside - it lasted 2 years! But it was nice to see him and he even gave me a hug! Anyway few weeks later I saw his Mum and Nanna down the main street was also nice to see them and I told them it was nice to see Dennis a few weeks ago and they said he said the same thing.

Since then Jaz has also bumped into him and so has my brother.

Ok so that brings us to last night - yes I bumped into him AGAIN. How can it be that you dont see someone for 7 years and them bump into them 3 times in a couple of months! Anyway he had a girl with him (kind of looked like me)?! We walked out of the shop and he was across from us - then he kept on walking - yep he snobbed me! Hahaha.

So there goes a long post for you - thats if your still reading!

Netball last night was great, we lost and I was SO buggered bit sore today!

Eating went REALLY well yesterday Im really proud of myself!